While different people have different preferences, physical attractiveness is something that is very intuitive.
My biopsychology professor in college claimed that attractiveness could be explained biologically by a personâ€™s interest in preserving their DNA.
”I certainly knew what I didn’t want ñ at least from the relationship that just ended.
Wouldn’t it have been great if I would have taken the time to think about all of the failed relationships and combined all that heartache into one clear idea of what I did and did not want in a relationship?
More than ever and all over the place, I began noticing more people who were my kind of partner – and they seemed to like me too.
And on my way home one evening, as I was mid-affirmation and feeling very romantic I looked down and there were rose petals everywhere, all across the pavement I was walking on.
Around this time, I was also getting more in touch with my spirituality and reading countless self-help books.
So what does that have to do with dating and relationships?I engaged in an assortment of brief romances with an Afrikaans beach bum, a singing/song-writing Jack Johnson doppelgänger, a saxophone-playing Texan and an elusive Nietzsche-reading hipster.Though my experience was amazing and soul enlivening, I craved something more when it came to my love life.I got myself into a position of not needing anyone yet at the same time anticipating the excitement of love – which I learnt was key – and this was accomplished through your teachings.I got on with my life and spent time on my interests and my career and with friends, whilst using your ideas to increase my expectation of love.