More important than the specific amount of time you need, though, is the state of mind you're in.You want to make sure you're not still in post-breakup mode.But I'm not some crazy immature person running around all of the time.I've never been drunk, never drank alcohol for that matter and I've made my way through college without taking out loans, or using assistance from my parents. I am his extremity, love of his life, i have nothing to worry about. After awhile i became insecure and not confident as i was before. He said that he can't live like this anymore even though he cares about me so very much. I felt in my heart 100% that after some time we would be together again. I then emailed him telling him that i am well, confident, feel more like my old self and that im not waiting around for him anymore. He then replied back saying that he has been thinking of me and has been sad. and was thinking maybe months down the road circumstances would be right for us to be back together again. I'm sure this is just a rebound relationship as i know he loves me very much. I'm sure and hoping he will realize that we are meant to be together. (as in text messages, calling just to say i love you ect.) He kept telling me that he loves me with all of his heart, he just is used to me. But as of now he is dating someone and taking one day at a time.We've reached a point where we think now is the time for us to either prepare to get married or we go our separate ways.
And when it comes to the getting rid of baby fat; blame biology for that, not the girl.4.
He expects her to change…and she expects him to stay the same.
This happens when the guy gets married to a working woman, and then expects her to give up her career for him.
Despite our long history of knowing each other, it's still difficult to make a decision like that. He completely disregards them and says that what bothers me is stupid, immature, dumb, or irrelevant.
He said if I approached him in a way that wasn't of a "12 year old" with something "important" then he would do something about it. I'll simply ask him something and he refuses to answer and then insult me by saying it was a dumb question. I'm not some perfectly mature person but I'm very responsible and I know I have a lot of growing up to do.